Health Proxy vs. Medical Power of Attorney: What’s the Difference?
Medical emergencies don’t come with warning labels. If you suddenly can’t speak for yourself, someone else will have to—but who?
That’s where health proxies and medical power of attorney (MPOA) come in. These terms are often used interchangeably—but they’re not always the same.
🧾 What’s the difference?
Health Proxy (or healthcare agent):
A person you authorize to make healthcare decisions if you’re unable to. Some states use this term instead of MPOA.
Medical Power of Attorney (MPOA):
A legal document that names the person who will act as your healthcare proxy. It often includes specific powers and instructions.
🧠 Bottom line: The proxy is the person. The MPOA is the paperwork that gives them legal authority.
📅 When should you name one?
NOW. Not when you're in crisis. Not after a diagnosis. NOW.
Illness, accidents, and surgeries can hit at any age—and hospitals can’t guess your wishes.
In fact, surveys show that about 54% of adults aged 50-80 haven’t completed a medical durable power of attorney or advance directive.
🤔 How to Choose Smart—Not Sentimental
Don’t just pick the person who loves you most. Pick the one who can:
✅ Handle stress and medical conversations
✅ Follow your wishes, not their emotions
✅ Speak clearly and confidently with doctors
✅ Stay calm in a crisis
✅ Be available when needed
Your decision-maker should be a trusted advocate, not just a close relative.
What to Do Next
Talk with your chosen proxy, and ask if they are willing to serve (many people are not). Discuss your values and wishes at length and put it in writing.
Complete a Medical Power of Attorney form (each state has its own).
Share copies with your doctors and keep one handy.
Need help getting your MPOA done or having the tough conversation with your loved ones? I’m here to guide you. Reach out today and let’s start the conversation.